help doctor belieber itt

[K-Man]

okay spame, my bullshit alter-ego good friend Dr. Belieber is having some romance issues. we both realize the irony of a love doctor that needs to now be the patient but he is LOSING his FUCKING mind (take it from me)

so, he's been seeing some chick that comes to most of his shows. Very pretty woman, always cool

then they start hanging out>hanging out a lot>boning a lot, normal cycle

but she wants to be with him ALL the DAMN time and this chick will literally stay up for 24+ hours drinking an partying at a rate that even my college-age self would've said "holy shit enough already"

so my question is, how does the good doctor go about seperating entirely from this vacuum of insanity

[K-Man]

this is some uncharted waters shit, my circuits are scrambled. the solution is prob obvious idfk

[Delirious Biznasty]

tell her she needs an intervention over drug abuse or things won't work out

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

"so my question is, how does the good doctor go about seperating entirely from this vacuum of insanity"
stop talking to her.

I guess it depends on how much you actually like her

and how old is this chick to be partying like that all the time? if she's 30+ years old that's a little weird imo. I guess if you're not THAT into her you should just say you aren't looking for a big commitment or something and if she keeps trying to be with you constantly, just blow her off until she gets it. if you DO really like her then it's harder, because I get that you don't want someone you really like to feel like you don't want them around. you're just going to have to make her understand that you want your own time and be consistent/insistent about it.

but then again you could be being weird or manipulative maybe without even being aware of it, so I don't know.

the one case dr. belieber couldn't crack....was his own.

[grue]

outdrink her like a man you fucking coward

[risbolla]

just desserts for a fking girlfriend haver i hope she gets obsessive nd jealous nd trys to destroy u

[Alienator]

tell her she doesn't party hardy enough for you and break up, you don't want people to know you're a sad sack

[Alienator]

so much for smoking weed erry day

[Alienator]

what does her husband think?

[fat lesbian]

dude seriously you really don't need to be around a person like that rn. tell her her habits are dangerous for you to expose yourself to and you need to get away from it. if she calms down she calms down, if she doesn't get out

[K-Man]

tell her she needs an intervention over drug abuse or things won't work out

this is an unlikely route, and things still might not work out even if she sobers up

but good call, otherwise

[K-Man]

"so my question is, how does the good doctor go about seperating entirely from this vacuum of insanity"
stop talking to her.

I guess it depends on how much you actually like her

and how old is this chick to be partying like that all the time? if she's 30+ years old that's a little weird imo. I guess if you're not THAT into her you should just say you aren't looking for a big commitment or something and if she keeps trying to be with you constantly, just blow her off until she gets it. if you DO really like her then it's harder, because I get that you don't want someone you really like to feel like you don't want them around. you're just going to have to make her understand that you want your own time and be consistent/insistent about it.

but then again you could be being weird or manipulative maybe without even being aware of it, so I don't know.

the one case dr. belieber couldn't crack....was his own.

wow, thoughtful response! let me chew on this for a minute before replying

at first, I liked her a lot. She has many positive qualities

and she is frigging 33, like way too old to be raging amd getting crunk like this. she was a high school English teacher for 10 years and this is her first year off from teaching, so it's like she's indulging in some overdue carefree and wild behavior

and now after dealing with all this, the flame is out and i dont like her as much anymore. but she really, really likes me and the other day was saying she wants me to be her boyfriend. I need to let her down gently, she is very fragile emotionally. what should be a simple seperation is now like diffusing a fucking time bomb, i have to handle it carefully but urgently

ughhh

and i doubt im being manipulative in any way, just charming and honest with a big dick and chicks dig that (dudes too)

[K-Man]

tell her she doesn't party hardy enough for you and break up, you don't want people to know you're a sad sack

sad sack my ass, charlie fucking sheen himself wouldnt be able to keep up with her

[K-Man]

dude seriously you really don't need to be around a person like that rn. tell her her habits are dangerous for you to expose yourself to and you need to get away from it. if she calms down she calms down, if she doesn't get out

yah, im thinking honesty is the route to take here. Lay all the cards on the table, let her know i cant be part of that world she is living in. im not gonna stop her, its her choice to live how she chooses, but i cant be part of it. if she tones it down, a lot, i may reconsider things. the issue for me is she really is sweet and intelligent and pretty as hell and I WANT to like her. but her lifestyle is a massive turnoff rn

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

yeah it sounds like she's got some shit to deal with tbh