perth thread

[fat lesbian]

yeah that's like literally what i said three times

[Gorilla Tits]

I don't read every post though

[grue]

did you read this one

[K-Man]

nope

[Ben]

which one

[Delirious Biznasty]

"I don't read every post"

whoa there, 3 posts a day is quite a bit so I understand that

[Gorilla Tits]

whatever nerd

[narcissa]

If u like a guy and this guy is with someone else and u've met that someone else twice and they're a lovely person but u flirt the guy anyway and the guy flirts back and invites u to his place are u a bad person for not quitting while ahead

[fat lesbian]

the answer is date girls i didn't read the rest of the post

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

If u like a guy and this guy is with someone else and u've met that someone else twice and they're a lovely person but u flirt the guy anyway and the guy flirts back and invites u to his place are u a bad person for not quitting while ahead

would this someone else be upset if they learned about it? if yes, then the only answer is yeah you're both being kind of shitty and selfish. but acting on those feelings is significantly worse. flirting is mostly harmless but inviting someone over to your house, or going over there and banging his brains out ramps up your selfishness about 100% (his as well) and makes him a pussy who's too afraid to tell his girlfriend that maybe he doesn't have it in him to be monogamous (if that's what the situation is supposed to be) and so he has to sneak around like a scared weasel. I'm not sure how anyone could be a part of something like that and not feel awful about it.

[K-Man]

fuck the bullshit, if yall wanna fuck then go fuck, relationships are stupid and unnatural

humans are mammals with primal instincts, we were never designed to be monogamous

[K-Man]

go forth and fornicate, my child

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

that's sort of a completely different point. it's different when *~feelings~* are involved, kramer-man. that girl may not see things that way and be truly hurt by their go-forthing-and-fornicating. I mean if you see things that way, and you won't feel bad about it, then go right ahead, but I'm not sure why you'd ask that question in the first place unless somewhere in the back of your head you felt like a turd about it. I just can't see how it's worth the 2 and a half minutes he takes to bust a nut after seeing those glorious buns if you're going to feel guilty and the other chick is going to be upset, AND the dude feeling like shit as well is a very real and maybe even likely possibility. your lack of control could essentially ruin three relationships, and all you got out of it (potentially) was one night of confliction-filled fun.

but then again you might just not give a hoot, he doesn't give a hoot, and the other girl doesn't care/find out.

[fat lesbian]

yeah narc it's not worth hurting someone. there's other dudes out there. billions of them in fact

[fat lesbian]

fuck the bullshit, if yall wanna fuck then go fuck, relationships are stupid and unnatural

humans are mammals with primal instincts, we were never designed to be monogamous

idk if i really like this view on the situation because i think the fact that we can love each other is great! it is the only wonderful thing about being alive we can love each other and more importantly be considerate to the feelings of others we get to choose if we can hurt someone or not and at least for me its a much better feeling to know that even if i didn't get something i want i avoided hurting aomeone