Dating & Relationships

[CharlieH]

and it's not some self-sanctimonious assertion that I'm better than you, or any of us are, Charlie. We all suck. But your try hard nature is both amusing and cringy

I guess this is about social relationships

yeah no shit. people still keep making a ten year old joke that is way way past its sell buy date and i'm the try hard

[Relaps]

well the wall post about modding a twitch channel was more like you had something to prove over trying to make us shut up

The mod thing will never die. That is your legacy. 

Also the derp mocking spongebob meme is passé

[Delirious Biznasty]

Ur disgusting sexist jokes aren't funny jesus christ are u still 12 or living in the 50s

Keep pretending to be angry when you know full well that you don't actually care, it was just a joke, and you also know full well that i don't actually think like that.

"pretending to be angry"

this is narcissa we're talking about here

[CharlieH]

i've tried everything, i'd tried laughing it off, i'd tried making jokes about it, i've tried getting angry about it. even tried showing that i am a mod somewhere now.

but, at the end of the day, you are right. it will never be forgotton.

i'm not even sure why i thought trying to be more active again was a good idea tbh

[Delirious Biznasty]

i've tried everything, i'd tried laughing it off, i'd tried making jokes about it, i've tried getting angry about it. even tried showing that i am a mod somewhere now.

but, at the end of the day, you are right. it will never be forgotton.

i'm not even sure why i thought trying to be more active again was a good idea tbh

charlie, you either ignore it or accept it

I had my fair share of bullshit here too that gets thrown at me every now and then, don't be a tweek or a jonc and take the bants to heart

[risbolla]

this meme will never ever not be funny no matter how traumatized this guy gets infact it only gets more funnyer

[risbolla]

on topic i dont have a gf or any game or any plans i just love my waifu nd disposable income

[fat lesbian]

charlie I genuinely hate you, ok?

[Zomber_Jesus]

charlie I genuinely hate you, ok?

I envy you for this Charlie. You might not realize but you're a lucky man.

[TsingtaoBelly]

Wow nobody stays on topic here, that's awesome.
This is gonna be a fairly long one so if you have any reading disability (I guess 50% of the spame users?), you can just skip this and go back to the fun drama.

Ok so a few days ago someone suggested I'd lower my standards and start dating chicks belonging to "my league", since that's what a 21st century fat man has to do, apparently.
I hooked up with this woman I used to go to school with, she was always hitting on me back in 2012 and a quick facebook inquiry proved she's been single ever since so I had reasons to believe she still had some feelings for me despite my newly developed fatness.
She's not fat, so I'm not sure she truly belongs to my league but I didn't want to aim too low already. She is average looking.
I hit her up on facebook and we chatted for a while, she was incredibly friendly (considering we didn't have any contact for the last 1 or 2 years) so I made my move and asked her out for dinner on Thursday.
The date started off quite nicely, we mostly talked about what we've been doing over these last years and reminisced about the school days.
At a certain point, mostly because my flirty intentions were starting to become quite obvious, I mentioned the fact that having gained weight had damaged my love life. I also admitted I had decided to lower my standards, following the advice of a friend.
As soon as I said that, the look on her face changed drastically. She sat in silence for a good thirty seconds, then told me it was getting late for her and rushed to pay for her meal without even letting me say goodbye in a proper way.
I tried reaching her on phone but it seems she's avoiding contact with me.

So there you have it, "lower your standards" is a pretty bad advice (albeit the best I got here so far).
I don't know why I even considered that to be honest, nobody wants to be a 2nd choice so I couldn't expect her to react any better than she did.
I guess I'll just have to settle with a life without a companion or even the occasional sex, but all things considered, there's more important things in life. If you're in a similar situation as mine, I suggest you follow my advice and focus on things other than relationships. Today's society despises fat people and there isn't enough time in a lifetime to change that (especially considering that for us obese people, clock's ticking a bit faster).

[narcissa]

Wtf is wrong with u

[TsingtaoBelly]

We all suck. 

That's quite transparent, especially after the last 2 pages of this thread

[TsingtaoBelly]

Wtf is wrong with u

well now that's exactly the eloquent response i was expecting

[Zomber_Jesus]

Wow nobody stays on topic here, that's awesome.
This is gonna be a fairly long one so if you have any reading disability (I guess 50% of the spame users?), you can just skip this and go back to the fun drama.

Ok so a few days ago someone suggested I'd lower my standards and start dating chicks belonging to "my league", since that's what a 21st century fat man has to do, apparently.
I hooked up with this woman I used to go to school with, she was always hitting on me back in 2012 and a quick facebook inquiry proved she's been single ever since so I had reasons to believe she still had some feelings for me despite my newly developed fatness.
She's not fat, so I'm not sure she truly belongs to my league but I didn't want to aim too low already. She is average looking.
I hit her up on facebook and we chatted for a while, she was incredibly friendly (considering we didn't have any contact for the last 1 or 2 years) so I made my move and asked her out for dinner on Thursday.
The date started off quite nicely, we mostly talked about what we've been doing over these last years and reminisced about the school days.
At a certain point, mostly because my flirty intentions were starting to become quite obvious, I mentioned the fact that having gained weight had damaged my love life. I also admitted I had decided to lower my standards, following the advice of a friend.
As soon as I said that, the look on her face changed drastically. She sat in silence for a good thirty seconds, then told me it was getting late for her and rushed to pay for her meal without even letting me say goodbye in a proper way.
I tried reaching her on phone but it seems she's avoiding contact with me.

So there you have it, "lower your standards" is a pretty bad advice (albeit the best I got here so far).
I don't know why I even considered that to be honest, nobody wants to be a 2nd choice so I couldn't expect her to react any better than she did.
I guess I'll just have to settle with a life without a companion or even the occasional sex, but all things considered, there's more important things in life. If you're in a similar situation as mine, I suggest you follow my advice and focus on things other than relationships. Today's society despises fat people and there isn't enough time in a lifetime to change that (especially considering that for us obese people, clock's ticking a bit faster).

Holy balls even I'm not this autistic

[TsingtaoBelly]

it says right behind your names you're both "Sex Havers", I really wasn't expecting you to understand and my post was never directed at you. However, thanks for your precious inputs