thinking im annoying doesn't make you homophobic, whining about how gay people have different opinions, crying about how we point out that straight people genuinely don't care about us until it's fashionable to do so, and genuinely thinking you have more authority on this subject than a gay person does make you homophobic.
trying to make yourself into the victim here (stop talking about straight white American males!!!! my poor feelings!!!! when literally no one did) makes you homophobic
calling a lesbian who is upset about 50 lgbt people being murdered dramatic and reactive is homophobic
using your gay roommates as a shield when being called out on homophobia is homophobic
and most of all, thinking you know what homophobia is better than a lesbian, a person who has lived with homophobia her entire life, makes you homophobic
trying to make yourself into the victim here (stop talking about straight white American males!!!! my poor feelings!!!! when literally no one did) makes you homophobic
calling a lesbian who is upset about 50 lgbt people being murdered dramatic and reactive is homophobic
using your gay roommates as a shield when being called out on homophobia is homophobic
and most of all, thinking you know what homophobia is better than a lesbian, a person who has lived with homophobia her entire life, makes you homophobic

