me vs niki

[Ben]

I am vile and toxic with people that deserve that, people that talk to me know i am anything but. You are not one of them. and that is not sth i'm gonna give up because if there's one thing i believe in is that shit shouldn't be tolerable and i don't have to play nice and polite for anyone that isn't willing to see other people's experiences and problems. I have seen again and again in this forum a far greater tolerance for shit talk from literally any boy or girl if she was adressing other girls. I've been enough years in this shit hole to see the community attitude and circle of acceptance so keep on labeling me toxic. To me you are nothing but a big hypocrite child that smashes his mod hammer whenever his ego is threatened. You have always talked agressively or passive aggressively to me even when i was neither, even in any random cool down discussion because that's the narrative you want of me and u can keep it i don't care anymore

Remember when someone said something mildly critical of Harry Potter and you jumped down their throat lol I sure did instigate that one

Im hardly talking about you, either. I don't really know you personally but I feel your tone is often very bad including now which is my concern. It's not just you, or just "women" (what a weird distinction to make)- it's just what ive been seeing as of late. The inability to say something unless it's negative