Guess who fucking told u so

[fat lesbian]

https://www.stereogum.com/1972514/pinegr...tour/news/

This guy now thinks that having sex with fans is bad. I'm kind of thinking he's going way too deep on that one. Many fans want to have sex with their idols, there's nothing inherently wrong with that as long as they're adults and mentally able to consent. I guess I understand that he's coming from how his own attitude was shaping his relationships but the implication is a little infantilizing for fans.

I mean, just make sure you follow some very clear checks? Is your fan an adult? Are they sober? Are they aware it's just sex / for fun?

Maybe the guy's just fucked up from the news,idk, but thi self-inflicted celibacy could be missing the point a little bit. Maybe therapy will help him learn how to set clear boundaries I guess

this is really, really performative. no one wants self flagellation after the fact... if you know why it’s wrong don’t fucking do it.