Dating & Relationships

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You left it too open. Should have asked her specifically to come out with you. You made it too casual like "oh come by maybe if you're out anyway" like you didn't give a shit either way, which you did.

Ask her on a date and stop trying so hard to be detached about it

we've been out on a couple dates already tho, so im just trying to be casual and easy going. no pressures, but i guess that's a bad thing FUK

she probably doesn't want to feel used, or is getting the vibe that you want it so casual that she doesn't really mean anything.

try to set up another date and talk to her about moving, and set the terms of the fwb. essentially making a relationship with planned obsolescence but respect for one-another. 

Its also possible that she isn't happy with how the whole thing is advancing and is just letting it go without getting more involved. again, by playing it so casual you might also have been acting cold to her, and not taking any initiative to wanting to see her or do things she likes as she had with you

I wouldn't give up however, try to be a little more forthcoming and ask her out again