Dating & Relationships

[K-Man]

i broke things off with hurricane elaine, she turned out to be an abusive toxic asshole

she stopped wildly drinking & drugging and ohhhh boyy if the real her isn't just such a piece of shit, constantly calling me stupid and a loser, or her favorite, a "scrub" (i work my ass off and paid for most of her meals, cocktails, weed, etc... anytime i said 'no' that was her chance to call me a brokeass [even though i had funds she didn't know about])

she threw my phone off her balcony yesterday so i kicked the shit out of her car. shoulda signed the dents, prouda those fuckers, felt good man

hopefully this is over, i'll update accordingly if the saga continues

fuck toxic people

[Gorilla Tits]

I hope your phone's okay!

[grue]

she threw my phone off her balcony yesterday so i kicked the shit out of her car

omfg lmao

[K-Man]

I hope your phone's okay!

posting from it now! slight crack to the left of the main screen but it works just fine

her car still drives too, guess we both have reminders of our mutual discontent for one another

[fat lesbian]

ill beat her up for u

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

this was the married chick right? if so, honestly, you should be old enough to have seen that coming. not that you deserve having your life fucked with, but really, choose wisely who you're going to spend half your time with. like damn bruh. I'm pretty sure multiple people here said fuck that noise before you two were a thing

[Urser]

calling me stupid and a loser, or her favorite, a "scrub"

gamer gfs amirite

[GeorgeBubbinzInSpace]

I KIND OF want to call you a dick for making light of someone else's misery but lol

[K-Man]

this was the married chick right? if so, honestly, you should be old enough to have seen that coming. not that you deserve having your life fucked with, but really, choose wisely who you're going to spend half your time with. like damn bruh. I'm pretty sure multiple people here said fuck that noise before you two were a thing

whoaa slow yo roll son, that's a whole 'nother chick from like 2 years ago that i ended up not pursuing, wisely

no this one started 6 months ago and is a whole new bag of bullshit

[grue]

honest question

what's the thought process behind staying even a minute longer with a person that openly insults you? im not trying to make light of the abuse, im just trying to understand your side

for example i have a friend whose relationship is reportedly shaky at times bc the gf is a bit of a wild card and ~they say~ he caught her making out with a dude once

but they're still together and a part of that i feel is that he's a character himself so i imagine his mind is like "how many people are going to put up with my drunk coke induced ass" but idk

[K-Man]

see, they never come out the gate with their abusive ways in the beginning -- she was trying to woo me as much as I was her, so it was all lovey-dovey and nicenice at first

eventually, little by little, there would be brief moments of major bitchiness where she would get abrasive with her words, but they would pass. I was like "ok, she's kinda nuts sometimes but hey what woman isn't lol" but these brief moments started becoming longer and harsher, but at that point we were close & sleeping together and I was like "the good parts are good, guess I can deal with her wicked side too" and you give love a chance

Then one day the sex stopped. The affection stopped. Kissing, hugging and cuddling dwindled by the day, but the abuse remained. I tried reasoning with her and having a dialogue about how she treated me, and sometimes it seemed like I was getting through to her. But next chance she got, always, she'd find a way to put me down. It finally hit a wall when I blew up on her the other day, I had already decided we needed time apart but her being super-clingy insisted on seeing me everyday anyway. The rage I had been bottling for months finally came up and it took a major fight in which we almost exchanged blows (not the good kind) to finally stop this endless bout.

There's lesson here, my peeps. Toxic people are impossible to argue or reason with, and even when the sex is good, there's a normal loving person out there waiting to fuck you better, and without the abuse.

[risbolla]

serves u right gf haver

[risbolla]

misery to all gf havers

[K-Man]

misery granted!

[fat lesbian]

misery to all gf havers

im a wife haver does that count