Dating & Relationships

[shagg]

remember that board??

well this is now the thread for all those same hopeless romantics, soul-searchers, blossoming partners, and experiences with significant others.

[shagg]

Ill start.

Had been in a 4-5 year relationship throughout college with a muslim-Bengali woman whom mostly kept me private from her family, a by product that comes out of her family's culture.

our relationship went through very weird ups and downs, and I would argue she was emotionally abusive.
she left our city for New Orleans to pursue Teach for America because she did not know her next career path.
I threw her a going away party and we said our goodbyes, which felt very proper and odd.

Well that was almost 2 years ago, and recently have been dating around.

Is anyone else actively in the date life? I'm 24 and this shit is funny/weird.

Like maybe it's my history of abuse from my ex, but i almost literally dont trust anyone. 

Any good date ideas?

[narcissa]

Yeah it's shit that's all of my contribution for this thread

[grue]

anyone in a happy relationship will be banned

[shagg]

im not happy nor in a relationship


am i mod now?

[shagg]

Yeah it's shit that's all of my contribution for this thread

like ive been going out on a few dates with new person

and she wanted to do way more with me than I thought, like after 2 days of dates she wanted to come over on a whim and play Settlers of Catan with my roommates.

that was sunday. I say friday im flying out of town and she should pick a night that works best to see each other. havent really heard from her since. we texted last night barely, about GIRLS (lena dunham is so GOOD). 

but Im feeling like she wont make plans by the time I fly. 
but i dont want to be the one that wants to hang out!!! 
but so far shes been very interested and i shouldnt let this one thing bring me down & just should ask her out
but she should want to hang out, too! I dont want to force myself.

it's like I cant get a good read on anyone anymore. :(

[Relaps]

I'm in a relationship, met on tinder, just officially passed 1 year. She's Asian and has a stepfather who doesn't like me. I've never had that experience before of not having a parent like me. Her real dad does like me tho.

[K-Man]

im single and dtf af

[Delirious Biznasty]

Yeah it's shit that's all of my contribution for this thread

at least you have one

[fat lesbian]

i have a wife she's pretty cool we have an apartment a car two cats and a ps4

[fat lesbian]

shagg wtf you're an adult just ask her to hang out. jesus

[shagg]

ya but i want to be seduced

[Relaps]

what makes you think you deserve to be seduced? she's into you, don't dick her around if you don't feel that interest back. she wanted to play settlers of Catan, she's trying to join in your hobbies and do things you like

[Relaps]

and fuck you

[grue]

counterpoint: she wants to play settlers of catan which means she's a giant nerd