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#31
dating apps suck in general
(11-16-2016, 02:28 AM)shagg Wrote: are you a meme?
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#32
I recently moved to a new town and I feel like everyone automatically hates me
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#33
Which is probably objectively good but am I not allowed to selfishly desire a penis in my butt?
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#34
THE BREAKDOWN

- Flight/trip got rescheduled, let her know Thursday
- Friday night I shoot her a text that I'm downtown, hit me up if she's going out
- Still no response of yet

A bartender-friend saw her out too.

Just so weird. We had a good time together tho maybe there wasnt a lot of sex in the air??? we would make out a lot but maybe i didnt make a real move fast enough???

but she wanted to come and play Catan last time we hung out, even though she could have just easily let me go my own way?? like that is what made me think she was ACTUALLY interested in hanging... going that extra step. but that feels like the end now.

Why am I this upset? she was chill and pretty, but we werent going to get serious or anything. she's moving in September.
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#35
You left it too open. Should have asked her specifically to come out with you. You made it too casual like "oh come by maybe if you're out anyway" like you didn't give a shit either way, which you did.

Ask her on a date and stop trying so hard to be detached about it
(11-16-2016, 02:28 AM)shagg Wrote: are you a meme?
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#36
nah I think it's too late at this point. time to add her entire family on facebook and harass them with dick pics.
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#37
hey i had sex
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#38
(04-04-2017, 02:04 AM)Relaps Wrote: You left it too open. Should have asked her specifically to come out with you. You made it too casual like "oh come by maybe if you're out anyway" like you didn't give a shit either way, which you did.

Ask her on a date and stop trying so hard to be detached about it

we've been out on a couple dates already tho, so im just trying to be casual and easy going. no pressures, but i guess that's a bad thing FUK
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#39
your misery and anxiety is amusing me
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#40
same
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#41
Shut up kingtide dating is tough and emotionally draining but what would u know
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#42
Wow that was mean i'm sorry
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#43
its okay I know it just means you have a crush on me
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#44
(04-04-2017, 02:37 AM)shagg Wrote:
(04-04-2017, 02:04 AM)Relaps Wrote: You left it too open. Should have asked her specifically to come out with you. You made it too casual like "oh come by maybe if you're out anyway" like you didn't give a shit either way, which you did.

Ask her on a date and stop trying so hard to be detached about it

we've been out on a couple dates already tho, so im just trying to be casual and easy going. no pressures, but i guess that's a bad thing FUK

she probably doesn't want to feel used, or is getting the vibe that you want it so casual that she doesn't really mean anything.

try to set up another date and talk to her about moving, and set the terms of the fwb. essentially making a relationship with planned obsolescence but respect for one-another. 

Its also possible that she isn't happy with how the whole thing is advancing and is just letting it go without getting more involved. again, by playing it so casual you might also have been acting cold to her, and not taking any initiative to wanting to see her or do things she likes as she had with you

I wouldn't give up however, try to be a little more forthcoming and ask her out again
(11-16-2016, 02:28 AM)shagg Wrote: are you a meme?
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#45
the only reason I'm saying for the planned end fwb is that with her moving she's got a lot going on, so you would help be a comfort and support she needs, while also being a nice return to form for you in rebuilding trust for relationships.

If there's magic and you fall in love, maybe try the long-distance thing.
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