+- The Spame Forum Experience (https://forums.spamerica.net)
+-- Forum: Bird-Related Discussion (https://forums.spamerica.net/forumdisplay.php?fid=1)
+--- Forum: No-Spin Zone (https://forums.spamerica.net/forumdisplay.php?fid=6)
+--- Thread: Dating & Relationships (/showthread.php?tid=654)
RE: Dating & Relationships - K-Man - 03-18-2018
i broke things off with hurricane elaine, she turned out to be an abusive toxic asshole
she stopped wildly drinking & drugging and ohhhh boyy if the real her isn't just such a piece of shit, constantly calling me stupid and a loser, or her favorite, a "scrub" (i work my ass off and paid for most of her meals, cocktails, weed, etc... anytime i said 'no' that was her chance to call me a brokeass [even though i had funds she didn't know about])
she threw my phone off her balcony yesterday so i kicked the shit out of her car. shoulda signed the dents, prouda those fuckers, felt good man
hopefully this is over, i'll update accordingly if the saga continues
fuck toxic people
RE: Dating & Relationships - Gorilla Tits - 03-18-2018
I hope your phone's okay!
RE: Dating & Relationships - grue - 03-18-2018
(03-18-2018, 12:07 AM)K-Man Wrote: she threw my phone off her balcony yesterday so i kicked the shit out of her car
omfg lmao
RE: Dating & Relationships - K-Man - 03-18-2018
(03-18-2018, 12:41 AM)Gorilla Tits Wrote: I hope your phone's okay!
posting from it now! slight crack to the left of the main screen but it works just fine
her car still drives too, guess we both have reminders of our mutual discontent for one another
RE: Dating & Relationships - fat lesbian - 03-18-2018
ill beat her up for u
RE: Dating & Relationships - GeorgeBubbinzInSpace - 03-18-2018
this was the married chick right? if so, honestly, you should be old enough to have seen that coming. not that you deserve having your life fucked with, but really, choose wisely who you're going to spend half your time with. like damn bruh. I'm pretty sure multiple people here said fuck that noise before you two were a thing
RE: Dating & Relationships - Urser - 03-18-2018
(03-18-2018, 12:07 AM)K-Man Wrote: calling me stupid and a loser, or her favorite, a "scrub"
gamer gfs amirite
RE: Dating & Relationships - GeorgeBubbinzInSpace - 03-18-2018
I KIND OF want to call you a dick for making light of someone else's misery but lol
RE: Dating & Relationships - K-Man - 03-18-2018
(03-18-2018, 02:55 PM)GeorgeBubbinzInSpace Wrote: this was the married chick right? if so, honestly, you should be old enough to have seen that coming. not that you deserve having your life fucked with, but really, choose wisely who you're going to spend half your time with. like damn bruh. I'm pretty sure multiple people here said fuck that noise before you two were a thing
whoaa slow yo roll son, that's a whole 'nother chick from like 2 years ago that i ended up not pursuing, wisely
no this one started 6 months ago and is a whole new bag of bullshit
RE: Dating & Relationships - grue - 03-18-2018
honest question
what's the thought process behind staying even a minute longer with a person that openly insults you? im not trying to make light of the abuse, im just trying to understand your side
for example i have a friend whose relationship is reportedly shaky at times bc the gf is a bit of a wild card and ~they say~ he caught her making out with a dude once
but they're still together and a part of that i feel is that he's a character himself so i imagine his mind is like "how many people are going to put up with my drunk coke induced ass" but idk
RE: Dating & Relationships - K-Man - 03-18-2018
see, they never come out the gate with their abusive ways in the beginning -- she was trying to woo me as much as I was her, so it was all lovey-dovey and nicenice at first
eventually, little by little, there would be brief moments of major bitchiness where she would get abrasive with her words, but they would pass. I was like "ok, she's kinda nuts sometimes but hey what woman isn't lol" but these brief moments started becoming longer and harsher, but at that point we were close & sleeping together and I was like "the good parts are good, guess I can deal with her wicked side too" and you give love a chance
Then one day the sex stopped. The affection stopped. Kissing, hugging and cuddling dwindled by the day, but the abuse remained. I tried reasoning with her and having a dialogue about how she treated me, and sometimes it seemed like I was getting through to her. But next chance she got, always, she'd find a way to put me down. It finally hit a wall when I blew up on her the other day, I had already decided we needed time apart but her being super-clingy insisted on seeing me everyday anyway. The rage I had been bottling for months finally came up and it took a major fight in which we almost exchanged blows (not the good kind) to finally stop this endless bout.
There's lesson here, my peeps. Toxic people are impossible to argue or reason with, and even when the sex is good, there's a normal loving person out there waiting to fuck you better, and without the abuse.
RE: Dating & Relationships - risbolla - 03-19-2018
serves u right gf haver
RE: Dating & Relationships - risbolla - 03-19-2018
misery to all gf havers
RE: Dating & Relationships - K-Man - 03-19-2018
misery granted!
RE: Dating & Relationships - fat lesbian - 03-19-2018
(03-19-2018, 12:53 AM)risbolla Wrote: misery to all gf havers
im a wife haver does that count